A Little Bit About Me
A girl is missing. Her life is full of problems and disappointments, and bad things happen to her all the time, yet she realizes that everybody's life is like this. She keeps contact with family and friends, visits them, and invites them over. She's developing her career by either going to school or she's already working, yet she balances that with her life outside of work. She's so beautiful that most guys think she's high maintenance and out of their league, but in reality -- she's actually friendly and sociable with a wonderful personality. She's independent, so she enjoys her own life and her own ambitions. She's almost always happy, and she has a long temper rather than a short one. Witnesses claim to have seen her enjoying her time for rest and relaxation when she's not busy with her work, study, play or other obligations. Her online profile gets lots of attention, so she gets lots of messages from lots of guys, yet she realizes this is normal for almost all women who have online profiles. At the same time, she does not get frustrated by the offensive or annoying messages she receives from some men, even if she thinks those men are unattractive and undesirable. She's a woman, so she gets way more messages than almost every man. She's picky, because she has high standards for the man she seeks, and she will not settle for anything less. But on the other hand, she does not get into the tempting and addictive habit of presuming that high-quality men will approach her in the near future, so she can simply reject or ignore all the men who are sending messages to her right now, so she can keep waiting indefinitely for those better-quality men of the future, in a repetitive pattern that can continue forever. She knows better than to waste her time; instead, she prefers to get away from online profiles and continue the rest of her life in the real world with a decent guy. She understands that she has to deal with lots of different types of men, yet she must maintain her composure through all her dealings with them. Her sense of humor helps her to deal with difficult situations with genuine humility, empathy, laughter and smiles. She realizes how much fierce competition most men must face in their attempts to meet women, and this feels like an impossible effort for nearly every man -- including the men in her own family. In the future, when she finally meets the man with whom she will spend the rest of her life, that man will admire her even more -- simply because she understood these basic facts about all men. She knows that seeing a person's online profile and meeting that same person in the real world can be very different experiences. Whether a profile seems like an excellent match or a horrible match -- or just average -- there is no way to tell without actually communicating and maybe, possibly meeting each other. Even if she has an online profile, it's still possible for her to meet a nice guy through her family, friends, classmates, colleagues or random social settings -- in the real world -- without the internet. She's a nubile debutante, so naturally -- other women want to be like her, yet they are not jealous or scornful towards her, and men everywhere desire her and long for her. She's able to handle the seemingly contradictory and conflicting requirements and constraints of finding a suitable man to be a part of her life.
Perhaps that missing girl may consider a man who supports her and encourages her to pursue all her academic, athletic and career objectives as well as her hobbies and personal interests. That man would treat her with respect and openly communicate with her. I am a man who's seeking this girl. I spend lots of time at work. Outside of work I play tennis (indoors and outdoors) -- a childhood hobby that I continue to this day. I also cook cuisines from around the world. Sometimes I get lazy, immature and childish -- for no apparent reason -- traits that are generally common to all guys. In university I did bachelor's and master's degrees in electrical engineering. I work as an electrical engineer. I'm naturally curious about how things work, and I try not to take too many things for granted. In some situations, I try to see things from the viewpoints of other people, as my way of trying to understand what's happening. I'm not perfect as I have my faults, and I suffer with problems and failures and mistakes. If there's any girl who might be interested in considering me, then I encourage her to lower her expectations before meeting me in real life. This will help her to be less disappointed, and it will lower the pressure for both of us when we meet each other. Of course, if she's that missing girl, then she would already understand these things, and she would look so beautiful while she's at it. So who is this missing girl, and where is she?
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