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sylheti, born and brought up in east london. never married. i live with family - family is important to me
i currently work in security. i get along with everyone i know. dont tend to make any enemies. everyone really likes me - guess theres something good they see in me
i like geeky stuff. bit of a film and tv buff. love my superhero movies and tv shows- marvel/dc etc. sci fi and fantasy stuff rocks.. i like gadgets. also annoyingly im a bit of a serial window shopper- i dunno why i do that its like a wierd hobby.
i take a keen interest in global events which may shape the world we will leave behind for our children. i can be quite outspoken or quiet. i can be a silent support to those who need me or a vocal defence who stands infront of them to take the brunt of whats coming. i try my best to be sincere and honest.
i have learnt over the years that you really cant please everyone all the time. so i just try to be the best brightest version of myself around everyone.
i can be a little introverted around new faces but come out of my shell after im comfortable. a bit socially awkward at times but i dont let that stop me from trying to make people smile by being silly.
i like to think i have a fun personality. i havent travelled so would definetly want to with my better half after marriage.
i come from a traditional/ moderate background. my elders dont stifle the women who have married into our family. the women are free to work and pursue careers if they so choose and no one is micro managing other peoples lives in my family. we are all independant parts of a combined unit so we all do our own thing yet come together to protect and support each other when the need arises.
my mum didnt have any daughters. she just had sons. so whoever i marry she wont treat like a daughter in law but more like her own daughter.
i try and only mix with good people or those who i trust are kind hearted. i dont mix with the wrong crowd or people who i feel are drawn to trouble.
im a very simple person. i love the people that matter to me wholeheartedly. im just looking for love in return and someone to join my family as a part of me and my heart. a woman who knows she wont ever be overlooked and will always be the pride of my family.
i dont think anyone can truly say what it is they are looking for. sometimes what we think we want is the opposite of what we choose in the end. i guess it depends on speaking and finding out about each other and building a bond or fondness for each other. no one can say they like someone without getting to know them a little that would be short sighted.
saying that i do have some thoughts on what i might hope to see in a person initially. im looking for a good person who understands the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with marriage. someone level headed who wants to work together to build a future.
i understand physical and mental attraction is something everyone looks for. im also looking for someone who i actually enjoy being around and speaking to. someone who is fun and playful yet knows when to be serious. someone i am drawn towards. someone who will always be my centre as well as my true north.... too much to ask for you say?
ok then just someone who enjoys being a couch potato with me and watching game of thrones then :p
all i know is that having too many specific demands like 'has to be this shade of brown skin' or 'has to have this exact personality or likes and dislikes' usually leaves us forever alone and never finding anyone who fits the premade mould we have for a spouse. i believe its better to be flexible with such things.
anyways get in touch if you want to speak i am available. to those who block people without even saying a word i want to say i feel sorry that you think its necessary to do that or that you feel that much fear of a second message coming through that you have to block people lol. i do not message and bother people who dont respond. dont block me like its normal to do so. it isnt- infact its kinda mean.
anyways thank you all for taking the time to read my profile. assalamualaikum
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