A Little Bit About Me
I like to think I am a balanced character who just thinks...' how on earth did I get to over 30' 😅
Islam is a key part of my life. It is the defining factor of 'who I am' and I hope to make it more integral to 'how I am'. I believe true belief starts with intention and translates to serenity, piety as well as good character. For me it is about cleansing the inner before creating the outwardly. Of course attempting to improve and strive for success in all the basic fundamentals of your faith is important. But we are all on a journey and must try to achieve this in time.
I love my family and wish for my own family soon. Id love to be a dad ( without the dad bod, ha).
I enjoy the gym as an activity. I don't endeavour to be a fitness model but my modus operandi in life is to go in hard or go home. I gym 5 times a week and keep to clean eating mostly.
I can be serious when the time is needed but prefer to be relaxed, occasionally dipping into being random and slightly childish.. Life is too short to frown all the time 😃
MY LIFE JOURNEY THUS FAR:
As with everyone I have made mistakes in the past but I recognise that the most finite resource we have on this planet is time...and now I want to be the best muslim I can be and work towards a better future.
I do like word play and occasionally write down my thoughts... the latest being the following:
'Clinging to the passing strands of time you pass through each moment forever changed. Did I pass through a vacuum of time or did the sands of time slip through my fingers? My mind captivated and my body scarred, I am not the same as before yet know not the difference of tomorrow'.
OTHER LIKES (in no order or format) :
Cars (petrol head)
Cooking - new healthy recipes
Netflix - loved Power/Narcos/Stranger Things/ Ozarks
Other fav series- Ertugrul/Peaky Blinders...
Interior Design - I'm a visionary 😅
(Random list I know ...)
What I Am Looking For
WHAT I AM SEEKING:
Someone caring, compassionate, kind, soft hearted and who has an abundance of mercy.
Someone with patience and who has a gentle smile accompanied with eyes full of warmth.
Someone willing to learn the deen with me rather than drag me behind.
Someone who recognises that time spent on this planet is best acknowledged by what you did for others. The persuit of personal wealth is merely futile and gains you neither loved ones nor buys you more time.
I have been married before and with the decree of Allah we seperated. Of course there is a distain in my heart for this to have happened but sometimes we have to accept that what makes sense on paper in finding a partner does not often materialise into goodness in practice. I am not here to judge anyone so please don't judge me either. No one ever sets out on this path envisaging that it may come to an end. I would like to think through this experience Allah has put me through some degree of refinement ( or so you would hope...). Its quite unusual for people to say no divorcees as who can predict their own destiny...
Any questions please ask.
RULES OF ENGAGEMENT:
A polite note, If we match please reveal your pictures as you can see mine. On the occasion they are blurred, on matching I will reveal them immediately so there are no surprises! If you are unwilling to reveal your pictures soon after then not much point of this app 💁♂️
If you like the dwayne johnson/jason statham look then great. If not, my looks wont be for you 😅.
By the way I am not very photogenic, if at all. My cousins say its not the camera but my face 😂. However If we met in person that would be a fairer judgement.
On the same note I prefer conversing on this app for a limited chat and then moving onto a phone call followed by a chat over a nice latte. Yes, you may think I am fleecing you for a free cuppa and honestly you might be right 😬😅. If I manage to get a muffin out of you and we end up getting married down the line, what a bonus!
If you are offended by any of the above please don't expend you're efforts... 😅