A Little Bit About Me
someone cant talk much about self however a short conversation can reveal much but i will try my best to expose me
i think i am a different lady the reason is that i noticed women all over my life dealing in a way and then be criticized by men, so i decided to notice this and work on it, do not cheer up please because i have turned to find that some men find this weird and go think " she must be preparing for something" hhhhhh, so if you are one of those who want just criticize and not looking forward to improve our way of dealing with each other so i am sorry to tell you i am not the one
i believe that someone must live with a purpose, whether its helping people, adding a part of knowledge or even rising up a good children. for me, i once wanted to do all this and while growing older i started to realize the big role of a woman in life when she takes good her role in her family. i am not saying that she should only help while behind curtains but what i meant is she can help directly through herself and indirectly through her husband and children.
if people going to describe me they well say i am a conservative person, good listener and have my own view about things
i want to make things better and i do not give up easily that the good side of me shortly.
i also have a not so good side, i easily get nervous if someone is lying to me, i have tried many times to think about excuses but this calm thinking comes after nervousness.
i am also so sensitive, this makes me keep distance between me and people to not get hurt.
I know Im a person who will fight for her family if needed, and a person who will spend most of her time improving her family's issues.. And for me the marriage will be a way for a greater purpose not itself a purpose to be just fulfilled and things end at this point.
i have tried hard to talk about me as much as i could and the rest will be revealed while communicating
What I Am Looking For
If you reached this section then I can tell you are interested to know more about me, nobody is perfect I know this but we all have priorities, things we can deal with and things we can't, even the not so good things about someone can be sectioned into things cab be changed and things not, I believe that someone can do his/her best to make a relationship successful.
That's a short introduction to let you know that even things not going well together you can improve yourself and have better chance with better person than me :)
I think im seeking somebody who thinks the way like me, understanding and merciful, a kind man is a treasure I can say.. Kind here means a wised kindness, when I was younger I used to like the version of Umar radya Allah Anho, but going elder i realized that a character like of Al Siddiq radya Allah anho is more impressive, a man like him who has a merciful times and wise determining times will be a perfect man, we are not like them but they are not just characters, we got to seek a personality like them.
For what Islam stated about the compatibility between two persons seek marriage, I expect a well educated man.
I expect him to care greatly about his family too, and I really appreciate a man who knows that rising up good children not only going around how much money you collect for them, but how much time you spend with them trying to teach them how to improve themselves, I expect a man who knows that men are predominant and willing to take all his responsibilities, and treat me well, a man who knows that a real obedient wife will be a wife who loves him not who fears him,
I'm somewhat introvert too, so I'm expecting him to understand this about me and for sure I'm going to try my best to change as much as I can if he is an extrovert
I also expect him to share some spiritual time with me, that is also romantic not just going out is romantic
So, if you a man who thinks of the marriage as a way to better life and a great final reward so I think you are good enough to begin a conversation.