A Little Bit About Me
I'm 28. I come from a Punjabi Muslim Family. Born and Bred in London but still proud of my roots and religion whilst being a Muslim living in a secular country.
Family is something that is really important to me which I would love to have with the right Muslimah in the near future. Insha'Allah.
I do consider myself to be an attentive, mature, responsible, easy going, laid back person most of the time but can be playful. I always try to learn from other people's mistakes rather than making the same ones. Prevention is always better than the cure.
In terms of values I would say I'm very traditional, masculine and "old skool" and believe that a (Muslim) man should provide, protect and lead his family given the crazy times we are living in and would want someone who is naturally feminine in the real sense.
I'm introverted by nature and enjoy deep meaningful conversations. I like reading non-fiction mostly. I also love my Indian/ Pakistani Food & Mithai 😋.
I watch & follow Mufti Menk & Dr. Yasir Qadhi to learn more about Islam who I consider Gems.
I try and follow Islam to the best of my ability and believe that Islam isn't just something that's inside our hearts but is something we practice by action if it really does reside inside our hearts and if we do genuinely believe in it. Only Allah knows best.
I also aspire to do Hajj/Umrah with my future Mrs of course and also aim to raise my family in an Islamic Environment / Community which I didn't have - Insha'Allah.
I aspire to better myself in every facet of my life whether it would be financially, professionally, physically, personally, spiritually, mentally and emotionally but Islam is definitely at the core of it all.
I'm here only for the purposes of marriage and marriage only.
I do intend on involving parents/elderly at the earliest if we match together.
What I Am Looking For
These are the qualities I'd be looking for in my future wife/mother of my kids
A Muslimah who is :
Religious, Traditional, Modest, Loyal, Selfless ,Patient, Feminine, Sincere, Loving, Respectful, Family Oriented, Practicing Muslim, Chaste, Morally Upright Person, Supportive, Pious, Loves & Values Motherhood. Respects, Loves & Values her Father (& Mother).
Physical Attraction is crucial and is something that should be mutual but someone who looks after their health and beauty.
Compatibility is also important for the marriage to work in the long run as Physical Attraction has a short shelf life.
Personal Values is something that should be in alignment which will be the bedrock/foundation of a strong healthy marriage - Insha'Allah.
Kids do not possess the power to choose their parents but adults do have the power to choose who they enter a relationship with.
I want to choose a woman who will make a good loving mother to our kids that they deserve and is their right.
I would also work relentlessly hard to become the Best Husband & Father who Provides, Protects, Nourishes (Loves) and Guides his Family - Insha'Allah.
Someone who knows why they are Muslim and hopefully loves Islam as much as I do - insha'Allah.
If you have qualities opposite of what I have stated above then I do not believe we would be a good match.
To avoid wasting my time and your time..
I do not want a Muslimah who:
Smokes/Drinks, Clubbing, Degenerate, Liberal, Long Line of exes, Haram Relationships , Immature ,Male Friends,
Brotherly Friends, Deceitful, Immodest, Narcissistic, Irresponsible, Career Obsessed/Oriented, Toxic Friends, Overly Materialistic, Superficial, Unrealistic Expectations, Short- Tempered, Violent, Drama Queen, Haram Jobs, Drugs etc.
I understand that nobody is perfect and neither am I, but these negative traits above do impact relationships whether we like it or not.
PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE SPEAKING TO 2,4,6 OR 10 OTHER GUYS ON THIS APP! 🙏
(honesty & exclusivity is important**)
Having said that:
Ideally someone of British South Asian Descent (Pakistani, Indian) etc ,but do welcome Sisters of other Ethnicities and Backgrounds. UK Based Only.
I'm preferably seeking a Single Muslimah who has (never been married before). No Divorcees Please.
Ideally Aged between 18 to 26
But all in all a woman of a beautiful, pure and gentle heart who is easy-going and has a good character that every righteous Muslim man would want.
Someone who understands the rights and responsibilities of her role within an Islamic marriage.
Thanks for taking the time to read my long lengthy description. If you are interested or would like to find out more than please do get in touch.
Otherwise I wish you the best of luck in your search for a spouse and may Allah SWT make it easy for you.