A Little Bit About Me
Its a quite different experience of finding a life partner on the web like this. But I think I should give it a chance.
So, I am looking for my other half. I am currently working as a Real Estate Consultant in a private firm in Dubai. My father was a govt. officer in Pakistan. He died in 2003 & mother is homemaker. Rest will be disclosed upon receiving message.
I am Hanafi & practicing Muslim. I pray 5 times Salah (Although sometimes miss Fajr) I performed Umrah in April 2017. It was the most memorable journey of my life I have ever had, hope to be there again with my wife. I do not celebrate Milad. I am strictly against Jahez/Dowry & Bida'ah. Visiting Dargah & fatiha are meaningless to me.
The reason I am here is seeking for life partner. I am the man of words, whatever I say I mean it. I am loving, caring, understanding,empathetic, humble, sincere, truthful, romantic, adventurous, hygienic, well mannered, well civilized, sophisticated, soft spoken, easy going, art loving, nature loving, fun loving & non judgmental person. (List is too big huh! Don’t worry you can verify later). At times I am introvert but also I mingle with my family & friends (Hey! of course male only). I like reading especially Islamic history, watching National geographic programs, cricket & not to mention ping pong. I was runner up in inter collegiate competition in Ping pong. (Oh! My opponent was so tough to play with). I would love to play/coach my other half to play ping pong. I like travelling the world, having a good sense of humor, love for humanity, do charity as much as I can. I believe everything I have belongs to Allah & Allah has given me these blessings, so to judge me & needy ones has right in these blessing which I have.
I see husband/wife bonding as per Qur'an "They are your garments & you are their garments."
Its a saying "Someone who has pious wife, he has attained half Jannah in this world." So I am looking for my half Jannah.
A husband should treat his wife as a child but when she needs him he should act as a man. A good husband is at first a good Muslim, if he is a good Muslim he will know & follow all the pre-requisites of being an exemplary husband. I want my wife to be my best friend neither me nor she should be afraid/hesitate to express our feelings/emotions towards each other. She must be my secret keeper as I will be her secret keeper. Doesn't share our (husband/wife) life on social media or even with her family members (will be explained during conversation). Life is not easy may be sometimes we have hardships (God forbade) in life so we both should be at firm stand by each other. I will be open book to her so that she may read every page of my life (lows & highs) also she must be an open book to me so that I can read her life's pages with ease & then act as per situation demands. I believe there should be no secret between husband & wife as she shares her life, emotions, feelings & company. So a best friend is a person with whom one can share everything. I am continuously striving to become better Mu’min because Allah swt orders us to enter fully into Islam.
I have mentioned my qualities (as per judged by others) here. Believe me I am human so I do have some flaws. Lets get into conversation to find out.
What I Am Looking For
I am in search of my life partner must be Muslim.
A wife is not just for this life but for hereafter.
I am not perfect so I am not looking for the perfect spouse but she must be family oriented girl, down to earth, knows how to be a wife.
When husband comes home he must be pleased to see her. (Someone like that).
I don't mean beauty, beauty fades away with the passage of time but manners, good behavior, Akhlaq are everlasting & lasts till end.