A Little Bit About Me
Asalaamu Alaykum,
I pray you are in the best of health.
I would describe myself someone who is well-educated, belongs to middle class educated (live in rental apartment), Sunni family, down to earth in nature, very honest, confident, active, very ambitious and with good sense of humour.
I very much enjoy travelling (have seen northern areas of Pakistan) and learning new things. I take great importance to exercise (yoga & aerobics – loves running on tracks) and my wellbeing. Other interests include freelancing as graphics designer, cooking, walk, dinning out, sea-view, travelling, & socialising with family & friends. I feel like to be in my own skin when I get a chance to travel, or help needy people & most important when I offer Namaz. In my free time: Music (mostly hip hop), Watch TV, Reading interesting articles/books, and vlogs.
My deen is very important to me, I pray 5 times, keep all fasts in Ramadan & strive to learn and act upon it. However I am moderate person who has mixed thinking + dressing & personality of eastern & western.
Totally focused on marriage commitment and in my view the best we might know someone is by talking to them and seeing their style in real situations. Someone who feels marriage should be once with understanding & problems can be solved with communication rather than running/quitting from the situation.
About myself, a good observer, reliable when it comes to responsibility, sometimes serious and sometimes funny. Came up from high moral and education standards. Always try to develop more maturity, honesty and discipline in my personality.
The last & important:
I stutter (psychological problem), never stutter in self-conversation & in reading, or recitation of Quran. Mostly i speak with very fluency, nobody can guess if i stammer or not. In fact people say not to speak about this in front of others as i speak with fluency mostly but i dislike dishonesty. I believe to make a start by telling this to build an honest relationship from my side. I am taking speech therapies but recovered a bit. Actually this thing happens psychologically. I never hesitate to discuss this as I am super confident that Allah has blessed me with lot of things & achievements. Nobody is fully perfect. Someone has personality / physical / psychological issues. & I believe a mature & intelligent person & family understand this. So i am not worried if this is an issue for you.
Rest you may ask in the future conversation. Thank You
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What I Am Looking For
Basically it's difficult to analyze that what actually we look for however i may think of someone who is here seriously for marriage purpose, is god fearing, a bit traditional, has good character, haven't had sexual or haram relationships (Zinnah). Who is ready to take responsibility of marriage financially, emotionally, & socially. And the one can look after his wife and future family independently. To give and get respect is more important to me than love. Someone who has high moral values, good character, well educated, extrovert, mature, responsible, non-conservative, moderate, intelligent, has traditional values, who knows his limits and roots, active, keeping himself fit (bonus), honest and most importantly an ever smiley humble heart and face.
- Have ONLY from Karachi please! Even if someone is abroad, roots should be in Karachi.
Please don't contact if you don't differ b/w haram & halal activities (drinks alcohol, sheesha, have physical relationships, etc) & smokers please. Also swipe left if you are insecure, conservative, & the one who hide important details.
Someone who is fully familiar with her roots and culture besides being a modernized person. & yes most important…. Who is very serious for marriage & involve parents at early stage & is mentally, emotionally, & financially prepared to start a new chapter of life “Marriage”.
I believe honesty and trust are the two factors which determine a successful relationship. An ideal partner would have a strong belief in our beautiful religion, eastern culture, and possess a balance of religion and the world that we live in today. He would have belief that a person should be accepted with his/her good & bad habits rather than try to change him/her for marriage purpose. I feel that forming a friendship is always important in order to gain an understanding of one another.
Nobody is perfect & nobody gets fully compatible guy/girl. But these things matter to initiate conversation:
- Have ONLY from Karachi please! Even if someone is abroad, roots should be in Karachi.
- Single/Unmarried + between 32 to 37 years of age + Sunni + can speak Urdu.
- Who can seriously accept the girl the way she is and not try to change her for marriage as nobody gets happiness if he/she is not in his/her own skin.
- Who is looking for Wife to raise new family & kids & make his House "A Home" (not working woman to support financially)
- Non-smoker & doesn’t drink.
- Non-materialistic families (who prefers a good girl rather than dowry).
A relationship needs time.. so if you have no time??? DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!! I am not interested in 2/4/6 months conversations. I believe in Nikkah seriously.
Take Care & Thank you
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