A Little Bit About Me
1) I will NOT relocate.
2) If you are already married (i.e. looking for another wife), separated but not officially divorced yet, not pursuing a serious relationship leading to marriage, an active drinker of alcohol, smoker or take recreational drugs, do NOT contact me. These are my non-negotiables.
3) I am seeking a Pakistani Sunni Muslim, who lives in the US and is in his 40s.
4) I don’t have kids, but open to you having kids from a previous marriage or if you’re a widower with kids.
Moved to the U.S. from Pakistan at 14 years old. Grew up in Texas, currently working and live in Colorado.
You’ll find me in the mountains quite literally all the time. I enjoy spending time in coffee shops, libraries, art stores, plein air painting, kayaking, hiking, biking, target practicing at shooting ranges, bird watching, camping, woodworking projects etc. I can be described as a workaholic, but I make time for my family and tend to maintain a good work-life balance. I’ve been working since I was 16 and have no intentions to quit my career after marriage, which I expect my future spouse to support. I just purchased my first home and so if you decide to become a part of my life, you’ll have to bring some level of non-financial value to it because quite frankly, I do not support traditional and outdated South Asian gender roles. Call me an alpha female if you want, but this is who I am. *Eldest daughter energy*
I was arranged married for a very short amount of time (less than a month) and divorced him due to abusive tendencies. And so, I have no room for problematic people with unrealistic expectations at this point in my life. My parents have raised a well-rounded woman and I expect my spouse to be at that same level. He should be mature enough to understand what he’s getting himself into, as marriage is a responsibility with no leeway for games nor toxic familial politics.
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What I Am Looking For
Looking for someone with a strong head on his shoulders, lives by his deen, believes in a “teamwork” mindset in a marriage, financially successful, sensitive by nature but masculine at the same time, emotionally intelligent, has a sense of humor, likes to travel, an adventurous spirit with a profound appreciation for life. If you don’t have any outdoor hobbies, are a lazy individual, penny pincher, and sit at home majority of the time, don’t have any meaningful experiences, I’m not the gal for you.
To some, my profile may seem blunt, but I would rather be clear-cut than deal with problems later.
Good luck with your search!
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