I've gradually arrived at the stage, where I would like nothing more, than to share my life with a good man and build a meaningful relationship based on mutual love and respect under the guidance of Allah Subhana wa ta'ala.

I would ideally like to meet a person who appreciates all of the traditional attributes of a good woman, but is able to acknowledge that for a woman raised in modern society, there’s a certain strength required for her to let her guard down in order to allow the prospect of love into her life. To this end I am hoping to meet a kind hearted, honest man who follows his deen and will support me as I do the same.

I enjoy my role as the lady of the partnership, however my kindness is not an indication of weakness, should I bake my husband’s favourite apple and cinnamon cake, even though I’m tired after a long day at work, cook his favourite meat dish even though I am vegetarian and do not eat meat myself or massage his forehead to alleviate the stresses of his day, although I have a splitting headache of my own, it would please me most that he accept such affections in the grace with which they will have been given, without seeking to take advantage of my affection for you.

I would like to meet someone who too has his own interests, is focused and ambitious so he can appreciate when I indulge in my own ambitions. He should also have a sense of humour and know how to have a laugh about things, it would be great if he had a good relationship with his family and friends so once again he can understand when I pursue relationships with mine. I am looking for a person who maintains his values at all times and is looking to date whilst open to the idea of a sincere, honest relationship, that could hold the prospect of marriage.

Although it is nice receive messages of interest, I am not trying to acquire any more friends. I would only like to receive genuine contact from people who feel they fit the profile above, can deliver what I am looking for and wish to receive what I can offer as a soul mate in return. If you are unable to conduct a legitimate relationship with a woman of my profile or know that your family or community would not approve of a union between yourself and a muslimah of my description, let us refrain from purposeless interactions. Inshaa’ Allah we will all find what we are truly searching for on this journey.


Now, to my future soul mate, should you read this, should you feel this, I very much look forward to hearing from you.

Salaam